Letting Go

By Loveallie Lao

 

Now is the best time to let go. So much for the expectations and high hopes that had gone down to the pit of the earth.

 

When you are no longer happy, and the repeated disappointments causes you more pain. It’s time to let go.

 

Never lose yourself while trying to hold on to someone who doesn’t care about losing you. It’s sad when you realize you aren’t as important to someone as you thought you were.

 

Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the person you thought would never hurt you. I am at fault for expecting too much from you, which leads to so much disappointment.

 

I am not going to apologise anymore, nor explain. I’m done. Letting go of everything. I have to move on for the next chapter of my life.

 

 

Void – Emptiness

By Loveallie Lao

 

 

There is this certain area, that is unfilled, empty, blank, and bare. No matter how you ignore and forget about it, it is there.
In life, we call them emptiness.

 

When you stop caring, and you feel like you’re abandoning yourself. When everything seems so distant and blurry…   Stop. Just stop.

 

Take some time off (on everything), and allow yourself to heal. Reconnect with your inner self. Everyone is allowed to feel sad, to feel down, and be depress. But, you alone can decide when and how to deal with it. Just don’t take too long, bouncing back up is the most important part.

 

Accept and acknowledge your feelings. Be compassionate to your self. Understanding oneself is the hardest thing to do. You have to win the battle against your self, to make the right decision.

 

People at one point in their life, feel sad, feel empty, feel lost and alone. This is just normal, especially when you loose someone special in your life. You need time alone to grieve. When you just experience a recent breakup, you need time alone for you to self heal.

 

Having an outlet to express the pain and sadness may save you from progressing to depression state. You have to seek support with your friends and family. Talk about how you feel and how it affects you. Talk to some experts on this matter and seek advice on how to deal with it. Engage in physical activities like workouts, yoga, tai chi, dancing, boxing or kick boxing, running, etc. Anything that keeps you busy.

 

At some point in our life, one cannot escape…

the stillness of ones mind

the emptiness of ones heart

unending pain and suffering

hollowness or the gap

unfilled, void

 

SNAP back to reality, gather your strength, and take charge of your future self. No one can do this for you, but you alone. Be brave and conquer your inner self. Life is precious, life is beautiful, and life is awesome. You deserve to experience the greatness of what life has to offer.